How to Make a Masturbator

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Weary hands, with thousands of hours of hard work bringing you relief, begin to ache. You realize that you can’t possibly jerk off again, wishing you had the real thing by your side now. We’ve all been there. 

A masturbator is the next best thing to a hot, willing partner. It’s exactly what you think it is — a sex toy that you can use to assist your masturbation sesh. And If you need any help with practicing masturbation, the team at School of Squirt got some amazing techniques that you can learn. By the way, masturbators aren’t exactly a new thing; they’ve been around for a long time in one form or another. Only recently have we taken the art of making faux orifices to the next level.

Socks, sponges, and fleshlights all serve the same purpose, regardless of how different they are. You can use them to rest your hands, or you can simply think of them as better alternatives to masturbation. That’s why everyone needs to know how to make a homemade masturbator.

Before you get to simulate sex, though, you need to know how to make your own fleshlight.

By the end of this article, you’ll know how to make a homemade masturbator that fulfills all your sexual fantasies. We’ll start you off with simple masturbation solutions and work our way to the most professional silicone ones. We won’t finish you off, as you should be able to do that yourself with all the information we provide.

So, without further ado, here’s how to make a masturbator. We’ll cover both simple and complex toys you can make. They include:

  • Towels and a latex glove/condom
  • Socks and a latex glove/condom
  • Sponges in a container and a latex glove/condom
  • Balloons in a container and a latex glove
  • Using cornstarch
  • Making your own silicone toy.

Get ready to learn how to make a masturbator that will transform your sex life. 


How to Make a Homemade Masturbator

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As we’ve already stated, we’ll start with simple methods of how to make a masturbator and work our way up.

The focus will be on the complexity of each toy, the time it takes to make it, and the necessary components. Besides showing you how to make a pocket pussy, we’ll also provide you with an overview of a masturbator’s pros and cons, and cover any safety concerns you should be aware of. So, how to make your own fleshlight?


How to Make a Masturbator out of Towels and a Latex Glove/Condom

Probably the simplest of all methods, this one requires nothing but a single towel and a latex glove or a condom. This is the best and easiest one to start with if you’re just learning how to make a homemade masturbator.

How to Make a Masturbator out of Towels and a Latex GloveMaking your own fleshlight out of household items sounds almost too good to be true, but it’s possible. So, how to make your own masturbator using nothing but a towel and a glove? In fact, there are two common methods of making a toy this way, depending on how you handle the towel.

You can either fold or roll the towel and then place the latex glove or the condom inside it to mimic a pocket pussy. You’ll have a masturbator that’s also easy to dismantle in no time. That’s essential if you don’t want your guests to accidentally stumble upon your collection of obvious sex toys.

Let’s start with a folded towel.


Folded Towel and Latex Glove/Condom

Wondering how to make a male masturbator that’s easy to put together and even easier to dismantle? Grab the nearest towel and we’ll show you how to make your own fleshlight out of it.

You’ll need:

  • A small towel
  • Latex gloves or a condom
  • A rubber band

Fold the towel a couple of times until you’re left with a long and narrow shape. Place the latex glove at one of the ends, making sure the cuff hangs over the edge.

Take the other end and fold the towel in half over the glove. The glove should now be inside the folded towel, with only the cuff hanging out. Take the cuff now, and stretch it enough so that you can roll it over the ends of the towel. Secure the cuff of the glove with a rubber band so that it doesn’t roll back.

This is probably the easiest method of how to make a homemade masturbator without any hassle. The end result should be a rubbery hole that you can stick your member into. Don’t forget to lube up before diving into your new sex toy.

Alternatively, you can use a condom instead of a latex glove. The process is largely the same; you’ll have to outstretch the condom to fit the ends of the towel. Just make sure that the condom is XL size or you probably won’t be able to stretch it enough. Condoms are softer and allow for deeper penetration, so they’re generally a better choice.


Rolled Towel and Latex Glove/Condom

We’ve covered folding, but how to make your own fleshlight out of a rolled towel? It’s a fairly straightforward process, and you might find it more appealing than simply folding the towel.

You’ll need more or less the same set of items:

  • A small towel
  • Toothpaste tube
  • Latex glove or a condom
  • Two rubber bands

Grab your soon-to-be-penetrated towel and fold it once lengthwise. Take the toothpaste tube and place it inside the latex glove. Keep in mind that the tube should imitate your junk. That’s why you can use anything that approximates the size of your member, it doesn’t necessarily have to be the toothpaste tube.

Place the glove with the phallic item inside it near one end of the towel. Again, the cuff of the glove should be hanging over the edge. Start rolling the towel from the end closest to where you placed the glove. 

Once you’ve rolled the towel over the glove once or twice, expand the cuff over the roll. Then, continue rolling until you use up the entire length of the towel so as to keep the stretched glove in place. Once you’ve rolled it up completely, you can use the two rubber bands to secure both ends of the towel.

Remove the toothpaste tube or any other item you’ve used from the glove, lube up, and have some crazy fun. You’ve just learned how to make a homemade masturbator out of a towel!

Again, you can use a condom instead of a glove, just make sure it’s in one of the largest sizes available.

Pros and Cons

Both towel variants are extremely easy to make and require little besides items you already have around the house. A rolled towel is a bit harder to achieve properly, but it will help you rub one out faster. Knowing how to make a homemade masturbator out of towels can take your wanking to the next level.

Unfortunately, towels might come loose fast, and then you’ll have to retighten them. Depending on how rough you like your masturbation sessions to be, towels could feel unpleasant. Another downside is the latex glove, which allows for only shallow penetration, unlike a real fleshlight. That’s why we’ll also cover how to make your own fleshlight later on.


How to Make a Masturbator out of Socks and a Latex Glove/Condom

tanned girl condomThe oldest trick in the book, socks have been abused as fake pussies for who knows how long. If you’ve ever used socks to give yourself some quick relief, you already know how to make your own fleshlight.

There are some tricks to it, though, so keep reading if you want to learn how to make a homemade masturbator that’s even better! Turning your sock drawer into a masturbation arsenal is fast, easy, and inconspicuous.

You’ll need:

  • Three pairs of socks
  • Two rubber bands
  • A latex glove

First, take two pairs of socks and stack them next to one another. Then take the socks by the toes and fold each pair.

The latex glove should be placed between two pairs of socks with the toes folded inwards. Again, the cuff of the glove should be hanging outside of the makeshift pussy. That way, you’ll be able to grab hold of it and stretch it around the folded part of the socks.

This is how to make your own fleshlight in no time! You should already see the shape of a cock sleeve appear. All you need are the final touches. 

Add the third pair of socks and use them as a belt of sorts. The third pair goes around your new toy, allowing you to manipulate the tightness of the masturbator. Use the rubber bands to secure both ends of the socks, and that’s it.

That’s how to make a good fleshlight with objects you have laying around the house.


Pros and Cons

Socks are better than towels since they allow you more control over the tightness of your masturbator. Depending on the quality of your socks, you’re also probably looking at a smoother texture. However, if you prefer a rougher fake orifice, just go with towels instead.

Now that you know how to make a masturbator, you might be excited to try it, but there are a few things we should get out of the way first. You can’t penetrate too deeply, which is why a condom would be a better option. Also, always use plenty of lube. It’s essential to keep your safety in mind when learning how to make a homemade masturbator.


How to Make a Masturbator out of Sponges and a Latex Glove/Condom

Socks and towels are probably the most obvious answers to how to make a masturbator using household objects. But they’re not the only ones. There are still plenty of useful things you keep around the house without knowing they’re potential cock sleeves.

How to Make a Masturbator out of Sponges 2

This method of how to make a homemade masturbator out of sponges comes with a shopping list. You probably have some of the items lying around already, and you can get the rest easily. To be precise, you’ll need:

  • A long cup or a can
  • Several kitchen sponges
  • A latex glove

It goes without saying that you should thoroughly wash any and all objects you will be using. We don’t know what kind of things you’re into, but putting your member in grease doesn’t sound hot at all. Now that we’ve got that covered, let’s see how to make your own fleshlight.

When your future missus is all nice and clean, you’ll need to fill her up with sponges. Make sure to first place one sponge at the bottom of the can or container of your choice. It will hold all the others that you’ll be adding later.

Bend the sponges so that they fit the shape of the can — the rounder, the better — leaving a small gap down the middle. Before you place the last two sponges along the can’s sides, put a latex glove in the middle of them to make a sort of a sandwich. 

Stuff the sandwich inside the can, grab the cuff of the glove, and spread it around the opening of the can. Besides mimicking a pocket pussy, spreading the glove like this will also ensure your masturbator doesn’t come apart.

Congratulations, now you know how to make a homemade masturbator that not only feels but looks like one.

Pros and Cons

You might have to buy a can or additional sponges if you don’t have enough clean ones. This method is more expensive than using a towel or a sock but still fairly cheap. It’ll also take more time to get right than simply folding a pair of socks or rolling a towel.

Also, the experience is slightly underwhelming in comparison to simply using pairs of socks. To increase your pleasure as much as possible, use the softest sponges you can find and replace the glove with an XL condom.

If you do go down the condom path, make sure to get a narrower can. This is a neat method of how to make a homemade masturbator, but still inferior to using socks.


How to Make a Masturbator out of Balloons in a Container and a Latex Glove


We’d wager you haven’t tried this one before. If you didn’t know how to make a masturbation toy using party items such as balloons before, you’re about to find out.

First off, it’s worth mentioning that if you don’t keep party equipment on hand, you’ll need to go shopping first. In that respect, this could be the most expensive method so far. What you’ll need is:

  • Several balloons
  • Duct tape
  • A wide cup
  • A latex glove

Technically, you need just four balloons for this little project, but it’s better to have some spare ones in case you pop any with your “spear.” Now that you know what you’ll need, it’s time to learn how to make a masturbator that will feel like the real thing.

Inflate the balloons only slightly, tie them, and use duct tape to secure the balloon to the edge of a wide cup. The balloon should be inside the cup. Repeat this process three more times for the other balloons. 

What you should get are four balloons filling up most of the space inside the cup, leaving a small gap right down the middle. You probably won’t get the preferred hole size on the first go. You might have to undo the balloons and then deflate them a bit (or inflate them some more) to get the desired opening in the center. That’s how to make a masturbator with balloons.

When you get the sweet spot size correctly, pull the latex glove through the middle, between the balloons. As always, the cuff should face up, and you should stretch it across the entirety of the cup opening. 

Pros and Cons

Now you know how to make your own fleshlight using balloons and duct tape. The question is whether you should do it or not.

It takes more time to put this masturbator together before you show it some hot loving. You might need to repeat the process a couple of times to get the appropriate size for your cock sleeve. That’s why it takes more time (and slightly more cash) than the other methods.

As far as pleasure goes, you’ll get an awesome sensation penetrating it, but when you push through the balloons, there’s not much left to enjoy. To improve the experience, you could add another layer of balloons and duct tape them to the bottom of the cup. However, that would take even more time; time you could have spent slamming a pair of socks.

Condoms are out of the question in this case, seeing as how you’ll be using a wide cup as a container. 

And that is how to make your own fleshlight using balloons — it’s not as easy as some of the other methods, but still worth a try.


How to Make a Homemade Masturbator Using Cornstarch

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Now, using cornstarch is a controversial answer to how to make a homemade masturbator. It’s largely frowned upon because of the potential health risks, for one. We’d suggest you avoid it if you want to spare yourself a nasty infection and an embarrassing trip to the ER.

However, we’ve decided to include it since it’s up to you to decide what you stick it into. This is what you need before you learn how to make your own fleshlight using cornstarch:

  • About 100 g of cornstarch
  • A wide cup
  • 200 g of water

Pour 100 g of cornstarch into the cup, add a 100 g of water, and start stirring. When it’s evenly mixed, add another 100 g of water and mix it again.

Microwave the mixture for about one minute. After that, take the cup and make a hole down the middle. Put it back into the microwave for another half a minute.

Then find an elongated object that’s slightly smaller than your member and stick it in the mixture. Take the cup, put it in the refrigerator, and let it sit there for about forty minutes.

The final product should resemble rubber, and that’s how it should feel. Replace the stick you’ve inserted with your poor fellow, and dig in.

Pros and Cons

All you need is starch and the willingness to learn how to make your own fleshlight. You’ll be able to enjoy a cheap homemade masturbator, but not for long. Think about how to make a masturbator some other way, as this one will fall apart quite easily.

Don’t make the mistake of being impatient and humping the mixture after microwaving it. You could end up with a nasty infection that you’ll have to explain to the doctor. Also, there’s no way of reheating the thing, so get ready for the coldest sex you’ll ever have.

So, how to make a homemade masturbator? Probably not like this…


How to Make Your Own Fleshlight out of Silicone


Silicone is safe for your health and the favorite go-to material for making sex toys. If there was a single best answer to the question of how to make a masturbator, it would be silicone.

For your silicone pussy project, you should have some silicone, of course, and something to use as a mold.

So, how to make your own fleshlight using silicone? You can find whatever resembles your member the most or cut something bigger down to size. In any case, the final shape should still be about a quarter smaller than your penis. 

Smoothen out the edges of your object (or food) of choice to make it resemble the real thing as much as possible. When you finally get a round (yet slightly smaller) replica of your penis, coat it in silicone. Make sure that the layer of silicone sealant is half an inch thick.

Let it sit for a couple of weeks until the silicone is completely dry. Afterward, remove the penis replica from the silicone mold and go crazy.

Pros and Cons

Silicone sex toys are safe for your private parts and you can use them as often as you like. This is how to make your own fleshlight that actually feels like one.

 Just like with all other homemade sex toys, don’t forget to use plenty of lube. The only real downside to making silicone pussies is the long waiting time before you get your happy hole.


How to Make a Masturbator out of Silicone and Get Rich

This is the only method that leaves you with a final product you can sell. 

There’s a huge demand for male sex toys on the market and you could make good money selling your own. Read more about how to design, produce, and sell your own sex toy, and you could be the proud owner of the next great sex toy business. If you do decide to try and make a buck selling silicone pussies, you should know that there are plenty of online stores such as Etsy that are willing to sell them.


You just learned how to make your own fleshlight. There must be at least one pocket pussy out of all those we mentioned that suits your needs. Some of them are so easy to make and don’t require any effort on your part that you simply must try them. At least give your old pair of socks a chance — they’re usually the best answer to the question of how to make a masturbator!

Of course, don’t forget a hefty amount of lube, or you might find yourself (and your member) irritated beyond measure. Avoid sharp edges or anything that could harm your best friend.

Finally, selling your sex toys is a great idea if you have silicone to spare. Play around with a couple of ideas and test them out. This might be one of the rare few situations where thinking with your other head is encouraged.

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